Monday, July 1, 2013

VOH Children, Families Bond on 1st Family Day

The children at the two Visions of Hope (VOH) boarding schools in Laguna have a common wish – to see their families every chance possible. On June 29, 2013, that wish was granted when VOH organized the first family day to bring the children and their families together in a time of worship, celebration, and dialogue.

Frances (left) and Jireh (middle) gets a tight embrace
from their mother after they sang and gave her white roses.
The boarding schools, which house children who otherwise would grow up on the street, are run by the Visions of Hope Foundation, a member of the Center for Community Transformation (CCT) Group of Ministries. The parents of about 50 % of the children are actively involved with the CCT’s Kaibigan Ministry which reaches out to specifically to street dwellers. Some of the parents are employed as service staff at the CCT support office or at branch offices, and others have jobs as construction workers. Five of the children are orphans formerly under the care of the Department of Social Welfare and Development. The parents of most of the rest of the children still live on the street, often attending CCT’s feeding program.

Almost half of the 73 children had visitors on family day, the highest number in years, as noted by VOH staff. Previously, the parents paid simultaneous scheduled visits once every two months but this was the first time there was a set of planned activities they were able to enjoy together.

The day began with the weekly corporate worship service, where the children sang and danced. They also offered white roses and a thank you song to their families. Those who did not have visitors gave roses to their house parents and teachers. Parents and children who celebrated their birthdays in June were surprised with birthday cakes. Parents joined the games that followed, while their children cheered, and they shared meals during lunch time. A dialogue with the parents – which included reports on health, academics, and home care – wrapped up the day. In the meeting, parents expressed their opinions and asked questions about partnering with VOH in taking care of the children.

The boarding school in the town of Bay houses boys ages 3 to 12 and girls ages 4 to 15. The Magdalena boarding school houses boys 9 to 19 of age. 

Grace, who danced during the program, is glad
that she can spend time with mother Nida.
 
Frances Bumby, nine, is proud about the fact that her younger sister, Jireh, sang and danced during the program. She was also pleased that her mother, who visits them regularly, won second prize in a food-eating contest. Frances wishes that family days will be done more often.

In 2012, she and her family were stuck in Luneta, a public park in Manila, for a few days because they did not have fare to return to their rented house in Navotas, a city directly north of Manila. They joined a CCT-led feeding program, and she and Jireh were later referred to VOH. Frances prays for a permanent home and for God’s daily protection to be upon her family. 

Unlike Frances, 15-year-old Mary Grace Torres said that before family day, she last saw her mother, Nida, at the end of 2012. This is because she tells Nida to save the money she would have spent visiting. Grace said that even though she is able to talk to her mother on the phone every weekend, her presence on family day was so much better.

Grace’s family lived on the street when she was eight years old after her father died, and Nida had no choice but to place Grace and her two siblings in different foster homes as they were growing up. Nida now works as service staff at the CCT support office. Grace prays that her family would stay strong in the Lord, and that she would be able to help them get out of poverty someday.

VOH children who were born in June celebrated their birth month with cakes.
Children and other parents cheered for fathers who joined an eating contest.
Frances's mother (second from right) won second in an eating
contest among mothers.